Joseph Augustine Anthony Silmon-Monerri
Joe Silmon

16 August 1937 - 1st July 2016


 

02/07/16 - It is not often that I comment on musicians on these tribute pages as I know very few personally. I took this photograph of Joe on the first occasion we were able to meet up when he was playing for his old friend, Des Hopkins, at Southport Jazz Festival.

Joe was a retired linguist, lexicographer and Jazz multi-instrumentalist. He was married, later divorced, and the father of Joseph Alan, Edward Ferdinand and Jane Georgiana.  He lived in Manchester, but his children live in different parts of the United Kingdom, although he remained in touch very frequently. He was out walking with one of his sons in Northallerton yesterday when he was unable to catch his breath, and although his son dialled 999, by the time they arrived Joe had already passed. The whole family were together at a barbecue in London and Joe was his usual self discussing his book's progress on Amazon amongst other things, according to his nephew Carlos.

I only met Joe about three times, but I very soon realised he was a warm thoughtful and deeply religious musician, who cared very much about other people. Joe loved to play jazz, not just traditional jazz but many other styles too, and his one disappointment was that he wasn't offered as many gigs as he would have liked. The biggest problem for Joe was that he didn't drive. so any gigs that he was offered had to be carefully weighed up to see if he could get there by public transport. This sometimes involved carrying clarinet, saxophones and a flute, and I can't imagine what the other bus passengers thought as he got on the bus! 

Joe's emails more than made up for the conversations we missed, he was never one for using one word when a dozen were more accurate in their description.  I can't begin to imagine how many newspaper cuttings he kept, and he was constantly working on several books as an author and lately as a self publisher, including one I fear we may never get to see - "THE MANCHESTER JAZZ SCENE (1919-1990s)".  It was through all these emails that I got to know about Joe, his background and his family, as if he lived next door to me.

From time to time I would get requests from site visitors asking about bands and musicians that they use to go and watch in Manchester, and were they still playing?  I could always rely on Joe to dig into his archives and come up with the answer. On the sad occasions that a musician passed away and Joe knew him, he would drop everything and write an obituary for the site, he wrote more than a dozen to date. He had a photographic memory and could remember the details of other musician's lives and family, which he would call upon for these obituaries.

Joe had an amazing life and career, and he once wrote his autobiography for Just Jazz Magazine, and with his permission, it was reproduced on this site. You can see some of his written works at http://sil4books.co.uk/books.html. His jazz book is shown but had yet to be completed and published, as it was a continuous and ongoing project for Joe.

I shall miss Joe.

Fred Burnett


02/07/16 -

Such sad news! I never met Joe, but feel I knew him well through his many delightful contributions to the jazz page. My condolences to his family.

Allan Wilcox


02/07/16 -

Sad to hear Joe has passed away, a true gentleman of jazz and a joy to be with.

Tony Dunleavy
 


02/07/16 -

Terribly sad to hear that Fred, he will be much missed.

Laurie. Cooper


03/07/16 -

So another one goes. I've known Joe Silmon for over 50 yrs. We've played in bands here and in London. He never ceased to amaze me how he would turn up for jobs with his several dozen instruments without being able to drive. He nevermissed musicians funerals where ever they were. I remember him turning up for banjo player Dave Potts funeral just as it finished. He had to catch several buses but he made it.

Joe was compiling a book on jazz in Manchester. When Alan Stevens the jazz reporter for the Manchester Evening News died he left his archives covering the '40's '50's and '60's to Joe. These have to be preserved. Joe loved jazz in all its forms and now there is one less of us.

Moe Green


03/07/16 - Such dreadful news to hear. The passing of a close friend. Joe.

Sincere condolences to his family.

Des Hopkins.


03/07/16 - I was on a gig with Mart's band when your email came through. To a man, we were all shocked and saddened

Joe did a trio gig for me on News Years Eve and played brilliantly. As he did every time I heard him

He was a very fine man and helped me ease into the Manchester Jazz scene when, as a fifteen year old in 1958, I couldn't play piano enough. He deserves a very special send off.

Please let me know when arrangements have been made for his funeral

Regards -  Roger Browne


03/07/16 -

Joe Silmon's many friends and admirers will be devastated by his sudden passing.  He was a consummate musician and a true gentleman. No doubt you will be notifying us of the funeral arrangements as soon as they are available.

With regards,

Eddie Little :
Secretary Manchester Jazz Society


03/07/16 -

That is sad news. As you may remember Joe wrote for Just Jazz in its early editions about the Manchester Jazz Scene of the 50s and 60s. Always precise and always pretty accurate in his reporting.

Pete Lay


03/07/16 -

I never played with Joe, nor even knew him personally, but via email, he gave me unstinted, helpful advice during some difficult 'music days' when I was living in Spain.

I know I must be just one of many, and we'll all miss him.
R I P Joe

John Westwood


03/07/16 -

So sad to hear the recent news of the passing of my good friend Joe Silmon. It was Joe that first introduced me to the Jazz scene In 1960 when we played at the "Cona Coffee Bar" in Manchester. I later had the opportunity to be along side him with The Tony Smith Jazzmen, and later with the Joe Silmon Dixielanders. I, and many other Jazz musicians will miss Joe's very talented musical achievements, and his wonderful personality. My sincere condolences go out to all his family, and our thoughts are with them at this sad time.

Mike & Sue Carnie.


03/07/16 -

I am very sad to hear about Jo. I new him during his Cheltenham GCHQ days late 80's into 90's. This was a period he felt was rather thin on gigs - mostly due to his lack of a car. He was such a fine musician that I used him when possible and felt it well worthwhile picking him up. The problem was he might try to persuade me to stay and listen to records into the early hours when I had a 9 am lecture to give at the Art College. It was always a treat to play with him, even when the flute came out it fitted our oldstyle jazz. I did not see him again till we met at Don Bridgewood's funeral last year- he had trained all the way to Bentham - unfortunately without an instrument.

With Sadness

Peter Boswell


03/07/16 -

Goodnight dear Ned.

Although we only played sporadically together in the sixties Jo and I kept in touch from the early days of th'interweb, a skill Joe picked up at GCHQ, and me with my day job. Up to a few weeks ago we had solved most world problems albeit in our favoured dialect, where we tried to "OUT GOON" each other, so any remaining emails are perfectly ENCRYPTED.

NeedlenardleNoo!

Sadly,
Jon White


03/07/16 -

I am very sad to hear about Jo. I new him during his Cheltenham GCHQ days late 80's into 90's. This was a period he felt was rather thin on gigs - mostly due to his lack of a car. He was such a fine musician that I used him when possible and felt it well worthwhile picking him up. The problem was he might try to persuade me to stay and listen to records into the early hours when I had a 9 am lecture to give at the Art College. It was always a treat to play with him, even when the flute came out it fitted our oldstyle jazz. I did not see him again till we met at Don Bridgewood's funeral last year- he had trained all the way to Bentham - unfortunately without an instrument.

With Sadness

Peter Boswell


03/07/16 -

Dear Fred, I was also shocked to hear of Joe's death. I knew him mainly from his early days when he used to sit in with The Crescent Jazz band at the Sportsman's restaurant on Market Street Manchester which Jenks used to run, and sometimes he came to The Bodega on Cross street when we were playing there.

I have been in touch with him through your site in latter years and we have emailed each other. He sent me the CD ... Jazz Friends... celebrating his 70 th birthday and 50 years in jazz .

He was such a fount of knowledge. We will miss his accounts of events he posted on your site and his inimitable way of describing them. My blind trombonist friend, Alan Thomas, remembers playing some sessions with him and Keith Pendlebury, and being given a lift with a friend in a television company van. Joe also played for a while with Maurice Pike's band that Alan later played with.

R. I. P. Joe and condolences to his family.

Brenda Canty-Forrest. (Was Tomkins)


04/07/16 -

Appallingly bad news. Like many others, I was proud to know Joe so well, in and out of jazz. He once even joined a door-knocking, Vacuum Cleaner sales team with me.

Don't know where to start really. I first met him (I think.) at the newly opened, Monday night, packed to the 'couldn't-get-in-by 9.00' stage at the RAAFA Jazz Club in Sale..1960 around April/May of that year.

The band was run jointly by Alan Yates (gtr). and Art Riley (pno). Malc Ferrari (dms), Derek Atkins (tpt) and Malcom Ridgeway (bs). Howard Burrows (tbn) and I were 1st members in the formation of the the band and to say that I could barely play jazz was really better than I deserved! Talk about learning the trade on stage!!!

It was a great success, attracting many "sitters-in", not least of which was this slightly Geordie-sounding, reed player with a gruffish voice and DLI, in hand written in white, brush-painted letters on his soprano sax box.

(Durham Light Infantry) He became a regular visitor and slowly, especially with our mutual admiration of Milligan, Sellers and Secombe, Joe and I became friends. Later in the year he was invited to do a solo feature for which he chose Dark Eyes. (Ochi Chyornye .. ??? ??????.)I heard someone ask him "What key? Joe scurried over to me because I was half a theory lesson in front of him.. blew the opening notes and asked quietly " What key is this, H ?" I blew a few notes and pompously pronounced that was D minor. He went back to Alan Yates, declared the key sig. and then launched into an astounding solo!

There are so many great stories of Joe that Fred's pages aren't big enough. Tragedy lurked ever close for Joe, both small and large but he handled them equally well, probably out of much experience.

The burst pipe and ceiling in mid Feb .. a cold one, will stay in my mind for ever. The Vac Sales team turned up to collect him for a day's canvassing and Joe came to the door clearly not ready to go out for the day. "Can't come.. We've had a burst!" Streuth! Had he indeed!

The dining room ceiling could hold it no longer and had burst like a brown paper bag. What a mess... I sent the team away and stayed with Joe whose sole effort, at least & mercifully, had been to turn off the water. He didn't know where to start! We spent the whole day clearing the mess and wet, as far as possible & as the room was beginning to look slightly liveable, Joe's spirits came up a bit and he said in a Goon Show voice "I suppose that I should take all this with a pinch of salt but that's a bit damp too!' The dining table was directly below the hole in the ceiling and the glass salt shaker was half full of water!

I have stories galore about my friend Joe, treasured friend & treasured memories.

In later years, circumstances and Joe's peregrinations kept us down to meetings at funerals, as we know all too well, these days but remember, Joe won't die until the last one of us who has memories of him, shuffles off as well..

Bye Joe.. You were a large part of my young life and long lasting memories. I'll try to time it to come to your funeral just as it's finishing in honour of the noble tradition set by you

Howard Murray..

PS.  You'll remember me Joe? I'm the guy whose long bonneted black Rover 14 convertible went through a brick wall in a car park, at 1 mph.... with you inside it! (The car.. not the brick wall!)

I'll revive your melody to Isobellita..

No se puede decir RIP Joe.. You nunca se durmió y la paz fue siempre difícil de alcanzar !


04/07/16 -

I am very sad to hear about the passing away of Joe Silmon. A wonderful musician and a very approachable person. Spent many a Saturday evening at the Black Lion in Salford when he played with the Zenith Six.

Thanks for the memories Joe.

Chris Massey


04/07/16 - We are very sad and shocked to hear of Joe's passing. Joe was a truly kind thoughtful person and a wonderful musician. Our thoughts are with his family.

Peter is in hospital at the moment making a good recovery following a heart attack which he suffered whilst out with the Marple Ramblers last Thursday.

Margaret Ward


04/07/16 - What a sad loss on hearing the death of Joe Silmon , a true gentleman and character who had an amazing knowledge of the Manchester Jazz scene and beyond ,as mentioned on the tribute page I too was looking forward to the completion of his book on the Manchester Jazz scene.

Dont forget Joe held the world record for playing jazz clarinet, UNDER WATER !! most of you should know how he managed it ??  I'll keep you guessing ,well done Joe, very upsetting to lose you a most interesting and genuine person to have known .. and perform on the Manchester jazz scene R I P .

Mark Mc Alister


04/07/16 -

So sorry to hear this bad news. Over the years I never spent a lot of time on the Manchester scene, which I regret. However, when I did get there Joe was one of those people who always remembered my name, always made me welcome and always encouraged me to sit in. I'm grateful for all that friendly encouragement. Apart from the music I always found Joe excellent company - I remember interesting conversations about all sorts of things.

Sam Wood


05/07/16 -

Joe Silmon. What can I say?

Joe , you gave us all your best, your 100 per cent.  A true gentleman, always a real pleasure to be in your company. You shared and chronicled our musical journeys -with music, love and true friendship. Not just the glory days, but the dark ones too. A wonderful little man with a heart of gold , full of fun and enthusiasm and commitment.

We all have our own , now sadly, memories of Joe. Since I moved to Sweden 5 years ago , Joe kept in touch with me, our shared memories of the Manchester Jazz Story, and personal musical memories.  Just the realization that he is not there any more is hard to understand. As Fred Burnett has already said, Joe has been an invaluable help to him in with Jazz North West.

I would like to take this opportunity to thank Fred for the wonderful work he does on behalf of us all . -I know Joe would appreciate that .

God Bless you, Joe Silmon

Sheila Collier, Helsingborg, Sweden.


05/07/16 -

I first met Joe in 1960’s when he was playing at the Black Lion, M.S.G. and later at the Malt Shovels in Altrincham, and I would often give him a lift home to Levenshulme in my red 1963 Mini. If he said ‘Fly me to the Moon’ it meant lets go to the Moon Chinese restaurant after the gig. First we would always go to his home to see his Mother and have a chat with her .Joe was always a kind and considerate man.

In 1970’s Joe was on Blue Peter [children’s TV show] when he broke the world record for playing the flute underwater, well he was in a submarine in Pomona dock!!!

Derek and I will both miss the beautiful copperplate hand written Christmas cards always containing the round robin about his books, writing and most important his family. Every time we met Joe would tell me about his children, he was so proud of them all.

Joe was a man of great intelligence [he worked at GCHQ ] wrote many books about Jazz and his family history and was a wonderful musician. Dear Joe we will all miss you ,rest in peace.

Trish Galloway


05/07/16 -

My wife and I were very shocked to hear of the untimely passing of our dear friend Joe Silmon. Meeting Joe for the first time as a 14 year old Traditional Jazz fan I was present when he bought his first Saxophone from a part time musician and BBC sound man in Levenshulme where he lived on and off for so many years.

Following Joe and his music around Manchester culminated in being, with another friend the ”doormen” at Joe’s club in the Thatched House (Now under the Arndale Centre!) When Joe moved to London to play with the Back o Town Syncopaters it coincided with my working in the Capital and I heard some of the gigs the band played around London at that time. Some years later I was honoured when Joe asked me to be the Best Man at his wedding to Carol. This I readily agreed to do and gave my address at the Wedding in English and for the benefit of some of Joe’s relatives in very poor Spanish!

Joe was not only a fantastic musician but he was a warm and compassionate man always ready to help people in any way he could. As a man of faith may he rest in peace with the grateful thanks of all of those who had the pleasure of knowing him.

John and Josephine Reid.


05/07/16 -

I am so sorry to hear the sad news about Joe Silmon. He was a lovely man, and always found time to say kind words about everyone, and was far better at keeping in touch than I ever was! He was also a very fine saxophonist and I remember making a recording with him at Paul Medina's house, with Brian Pendleton. It was a wonderful and memorable evening, and one that he frequently reminisced about. I also remember the detailed account he wrote of my father-in-law's funeral.

My sincere condolences to his family who I know he held in very high regard.

Suzanne Fonseca


06/07/16 -

Sadly I never actually got to play with Joe but watched him play many many times with the Zenith 6 before he defected south.
I have one very unusual memory of him - the first time I ever met him.

My dad was the drummer with Tony Smith's Jazzmen, I was about 12/13 years old (I'm 68 now) and had gone along to watch the band rehearsing on a Sunday afternoon at the MSG in Long Millgate Manchester. The band were all there with the exception of a clarinetist but had started anyway and part way through about the third tune I heard this wonderful sound from the entrance end of the club - it was Joe joining in with the band in 'New Orleans' style as he walked the length of the club to the stage.

I had a conversation with Joe about this only a couple of years ago and he did remember it - just as I do. I'm sure he won't have problem getting a seat in the reed section of wherever he's gone!

Mike Sutton


06/07/16 -

Having to write about the passing of Joe Silmon is I am sure, as with everyone, a great shock. My wife Elke, rather expected Joe to write my obituary when the time came rather than this role reversal.

I have played alongside Joe since I was 17. I was the trombonist in The Blackfriars Society Jazz Band led then by trumpeter Alan Royle and Joe was on clarinet. Our first gig was at The Thatched House in Manchester. From there we both joined pianist Phil Godbert in his band, which I think morphed into The Joe Silmon Jazzmen (what with the the sands of time I'm open to corrections on this).

Joe was a lifelong friend of all my family, often joining us for our get-togethers. He was godfather to my trumpet-playing daughter Louise. We shared common Spanish ancestry with Joe and at one time, with his interest in genealology, he tried unsuccessfully to prove that our family trees were linked sometime in the past. We had many a happy impromptu musical soiree here at home with our mutual musician friends.

Some will recall that for a year or so, Joe held the Guiness Book of Records award for playing the flute for the longest time underwater (I forget for how long). To do this, he had the use of a Royal Navy submarine. I can't imagine this happening in today's climate of security. With more than good luck, I had the pleasure of recording, possibly Joe's last studio session, in January of this year, along with Bryan Pendleton on keyboard, Ian Wright on drums and myself on double bass. Our last memories are having a cup of hot chocolate with Joe in his flat whilst we listened to this recording with him.

You leave a great gap in our lives, Joe.

Rest in Peace.
Paul and Elke Medina


07/07/16 -

When Paul Medina rang early Sunday morning to give me the sad news of Joe's sudden death I thought back to the memories of very happy times.

Chinese takeaways, eaten in my car, after gigs at the Piccadilly Hotel Manchester. Joe's wife Carol couldn't stand the smell so we didn't take the food back home. Doing high kicks together at the White Lion, Withington when he stood in for Tony Foulkes with the Harlem Hot Stompers. I remember splitting my velvet trousers from front to back on that occasion carrying on with the trombone players towel tucked into the waistband. Joe was a cartoonist of substantial talent, as this drawing shows.

He sent this to me in a Christmas card following a gig we did at the Malt Shovels in Altrincham where the piano was so far out of concert pitch that he had to struggle and play all night with his sax mouthpiece wobbling to be able to stay in tune. The cartoon shows Dave Berry on drums, John Reade, piano, and me, waving a tambourine.

Joe's 70th Birthday party when Doug Whaley on trumpet, Paul Bamford, guitar, Joe on reeds, with his daughter Jane Georgina singing Van Morrison's Moondance, and a very good drummer whose name escapes me, entertained us all.

When Joe broke the world record for playing the flute under water, he rang me during one of his 5 minute breaks. I hadn't a clue that he was in a Royal Navy vessel just off the coast of Portsmouth but I promised there and then to send a donation to his chosen charity. He held the record in the Guinness Book of records for several years until a young American beat it.

Joe would have been the busiest reed player in the North West if he'd had transport. Thanks Joe for all the happy times you gave to so many people. I would like to send sincere condolences to all his family.

Love Julie Flynn,
Cheadle, Cheshire


08/07/16 -

I am absolutely gutted to learn of Joe's passing, He was a warm, friendly and funny person and great to be around. As a younger (30 year old!) jazz musician I was lucky to have a stint of a year or so playing with Joe in a trio which consisted of Joe on reeds, myself on bass and Rob McWhirter on guitar. It was a great experience sharing the stage with Joe and I remember many enjoyable gigs sitting back and listening to Joe's playing. It was testament to his ability as a musician that he was comfortable playing some of the more modern repertoire that Rob and I introduced to the trio and always willing to stretch out. In return Joe taught me a lot of jazz language and tunes.

I have many fond memories of conversations with Joe, especially in the car driving to and from gigs and rehearsals, he was never short of a interesting story or ten and was a good Spanish teacher too.

Joe - thanks for all of the great music and memories

James Winterburn.


08/07/16 -

Much saddened to hear of the death of Joe Silmon. I have done a number of gigs with him over the last few years and each one was a pleasure. His playing was as warm and witty as the man himself. Along with many others I will miss him greatly.

Les Berry


09/07/16 -

Kath and I were shocked and saddened to hear of Joe's passing. He was a superb musician, always full of enthusiasm, inventive musical phrasing, a top solo performer, his humour and wit made him 'second to none'. It was only a few weeks ago we played our last 'trio' gig together, (my first gig with Joe was in 1959/60, here in Manchester, can't remember which 'Jazz club'!!, could have been the Thatched House). Our condolences to Joe's family, he will be sorely missed by musicians and jazz followers alike. He leaves us with fond memories of his musical talent, and wonderful personality.

Kath and John Gordon


09/07/16 -

I was shocked and saddened to learn of Joe’s death. I first met him nearly forty years ago when we played a couple of gigs (a telephone band, like most of those when our paths crossed). As I was generally playing music at the traditional end of the spectrum, it was a welcome diversion to accompany someone of a more modern outlook. Then Joe disappeared from Manchester, leaving behind some wild rumours of where he had gone and what he was doing – in Cheltenham? – Leeds? – Spain? – behind the iron curtain? – engaged in espionage? – counter-espionage? – behind enemy lines? And then he returned telling us that he had been translating and interpreting.

Again our encounters were in telephone bands (often assembled by John Gordon), where the nature and location of the functions (an antique bandstand in Debdale Park, the promenade at New Brighton.......) were not conducive to creative and exploratory music, but how I enjoyed his playing, his humour, his whole nature. He visited us in Bolton a couple of times, on one occasion, if I remember correctly, to gain further information about Jelly Roll Morton: while I am an enthusiast of Morton’s music I am no sort of expert – maybe I had some interesting recordings. Meryl and I both enjoyed entertaining him, though really he was entertaining us!

He was a meticulous and most caring person, as those who have read his notes on deceased musicians will testify. It is a shame that his being a non-driver led to a lack of gigs in latter years, but it is of some consolation to read Paul Medina’s notes of recent social and musical liaisons.

Adios, Joe.

John Muskett


09/07/16 -

I really loved Joe – he was the kind of guy who was always pleased to see you - and, as well as his superb playing skills, he was always fun to be with on a gig. I played with him for a number of years in all sorts of bands although primarily with the Panama Jazz Band and I enjoyed every minute of it. The Sunday nights especially at Tommy Ducks with the Panama became a legend in Northern Jazz circles. Musically he had it all and he also swung like the clappers.

One performance in particular of Joe’s that really sticks in my mind is when he and George Galway played a flute duet at Don Long’s funeral service. The sound of the two flutes impeccably played and with the ephemeral echo of the Church was a joy to hear and will live with me for ever.

I do remember going to Joe’s 70th birthday bash – we took Doug Whaley and I was the mystery drummer in Julie Flynn’s lovely reminiscences above. On the night I recall he was getting a little agitated with his catering skills until my wife Hilary relieved him of that duty. He just wanted to get on stage and play. He was forever grateful and constantly reminded Hilary about it whenever we met.

Joe was a lovely guy and I know that I, like a lot of others, will miss both him, and his Christmas cards, where he did a very detailed and well thought out synopsis of all that had happened to him and his family during the year.

Joe - you will be sadly missed.

David and Hilary Moore


10/07/16 -

We are just back from holiday and I am so sorry to be so late in adding my short tribute to Joe. I am not surprised you are being inundated, he was such a lovely and friendly man. When David and I were doing our jazz under the Heysham Heritage Hall banner, Joe arrived without a stand for his sax. All I did was to run him down to Promenade Music, where he got a reasonably priced one, and he never forgot it, thanking me by e-mail and mentioning it again as we met. I shall read every tribute as I feel so sad, but yet pleased to realise he had so many, many friends who loved him.

Norman Gibson


10/07/16 -

I am very saddened to hear the news of the death of a wonderful and lovely man - Joe Silmon. Having been on the Manchester and N.West jazz scene since the late 1950s / early 60s onwards until I put my drumsticks away in October last. I have had the pleasure of playing alongside Joe on many occasions and always found him to be invariably cheerful and a sound musician on his various reed instruments.

He was a remarkable man liked by all.

I was surprised to see my face and name appearing in the cartoon drawing of Joe (quite a good likeness) accompanied by myself on drums and John Reade on piano, with Julie Flynn waving her tambourine. This sketch appeared in a cartoon sent to Julie with a Christmas card. It is a reminder of the many happy times I have myself enjoyed playing in the Pete Haslam jazzband, Manchester@s Zenith Six, the Red River Jazzmen, and for the last 35 years the Harlem Hot Stompers. How the years have flown.

I shall always keep a place in my heart for the memory of Joe; may he rest in peace.

Dave Berry


10/07/16 -

I met Joe Silmon through my elder brother, Paul Medina, and my first remembered meeting was at the Warren Bulkeley pub in Stockport. We were backstage, waiting for our spot in a talent contest. As we stood there, waiting to go on, Joe, clarinet in mouth, played a note, “is that a B flat?” he asked me - just as he did with Howie the Howe (see Howard Murray's tribute) but, unlike brother Paul, who is pitch-perfect, I couldn't answer. Alongside us also, was the third member of the trio, a young man with a snare drum. Like the rest of us in those days, he was poor, and could only afford the single drum. His name was Mike Yarwood, who later would become world renowned as an impressionist and comic.  (Incidently, and in passing, Joe would have been pleased to hear that the great trumpet player, Maynard Ferguson, also once played at the Warren Bulkeley)

In the 1960s, Joe's parents lived in a basement flat in Maida Vale, London. I accompanied Joe on one of his visits, and it was there that he recounted meeting the boogie/ blues pianist, John Mayall, on Euston station, who had an amplifier strapped to his back. The conversation went like this:” Hello, John, where are you off to?” ”America, to make my fortune, d'you want to join my band ?” “No, thanks, I'm too busy at the moment!”   John Mayall, founder member of the Blues Breakers, did, in fact make his fortune, and the band became famous international stars.

On another occasion, Joe told me about when he'd been playing in France. Work was hard come by, and, being a typical musician, he had no money and was hungry. So hungry, that in desperation, he actually ATE A CHAMPAGNE CORK!

He was a good cook, too. At his 70th birthday party and at my nephew's 40th birthday party, he constructed a prodigious Russian Salad, which was a work of art in itself, (perhaps one of his family has a pic of this erection) and used to assemble “7 day stews” - to save time!

The repartee was always fierce when Joe was around. If you hurled an insult at him to gain a moment's breathing space, he would counter with the classic Neddy Seagoon reply “I resemble that remark!”

Au revoir, Joe, we hope you're getting some decent fried rice with a fried egg on top!

Mike (Miguelita) Medina, and very good friend of Joe's, Clare (Clarita) Johnson.


11/07/16

I was very sad to hear of the sudden death of Joe Silmon, a man of kindness, great energy and enthusiasm. He played often with my late husband Frank Fonseca and I enjoyed his playing and his general bonhomie whenever I met him at gigs. When Frank died, Joe immediately set about writing an obituary for him which is still I think on your site. He came to the funeral and played with all the other musicians to commemorate and mark Frank's death. However, his kindness went further than that because it transpired that he and I shared an interest in genealogy and he was very helpful in my endeavours to uncover more about the Fonseca family tree and he also translated some documents from the Portuguese for me.

To say that Joe was interested in genealogy is an understatement. He had a passion for it and spent many years delving into his own family tree. He produced a very large volume about this and I was privileged to offer some editorial comments on the work. The material was fascinating and Joe set about re-writing and eventually publishing it in a different form. His determination, his perseverance and his ability to pick himself up after setbacks in this field were remarkable. I shall treasure my copy of the original book as a memento of a man I admired.

He was very proud of his family and I would like to offer my sincere condolences to his children, Joe, Ed and Jane, his niece Pepita and his wider family. I am sure you will all miss him very much. He took the trouble to write a full letter containing news of his work and his family at Christmas each year and I will miss receiving this next Christmas.

Sincerely yours,
Barbara Fonseca


12/07/16 -

I heard from Paul Medina that Joe Siilmon had passed away. He was an interesting musician and will be missed by many.

Life is much too short, especially for Jazz musicians!

Mike Farmer


13/07/16 -

I first met Joe when I was a sallow faced youth of about fifteen or so when he was playing with my mate John Tucker in the Back'O'Town Syncopators. Probably at the Bamboo. Apart from being one of the nicest people I have ever met, Joe was one of the finest and best loved musicians. I was also lucky to play occasionally with Joe over the years as he was always popping up as everyone's preferred dep. For me, his amazing soprano sax playing will forever be his iconic trade mark although a master of reeds in general. I have marked the day in the diary to say my farewells to this lovely guy.

Tony Kennedy.


15/07/16 -

Joe Silmon (or "Uncle Joe" as I always knew him), was my godfather.

I used to get the latest edition of The Guinness Book of Records each year when he held the (somewhat obscure) record for playing the flute for an inordinately long time whilst in a submarine. It was not only a current edition, but it was autographed by Joe Silmon. Anyone that ever saw Uncle Joe's writing, would know it to be very impressive; incredibly neat and decorated with flamboyant flourishes.

When I was little, Uncle Joe came to all my birthday parties. Even as an adult, he always (without fail) sent me a birthday card. As were my own parents, Uncle Joe was quite religious, so it almost went without saying, that he was there for my First Holy Communion and other such occasions. I still have the Rosary Beads, that he gave me.

I described his sense of humour as "goon show humour". He was always jovial and quick-witted. At my dad's wedding (only a few years ago), I remember he and David Ellis laughing and joking in this style. I wish I could recall in more specific detail what they had been discussing. There was free wine for the guests though.... Suffice it to say, it was absolutely hilarious.

Finally, his ability as a musician was incredible. Everyone knows this. It will be his legacy.

Louise Medina


16/07/16 -

My name is Xavier, and I'm Joe Silmon's oldest nephew.

I just wanted to say a heartfelt thank you to you, and Joe's many friends and acquaintances, for the lovely tributes posted on your site. My whole family will be comforted to know how much loved he was, and how he will be missed by many.

Uncle Joe's music, wit, zany humour, and most of all his love and caring for every one of us will be sorely missed.

His funeral, for which he will probably turn up late, is as below:

Funeral confirmed 1st August @ 1400, at Old Chapel of Manchester Crematorium.

Thank you & Kind regards

Xavier Silmon De Monerri


18/07/16 -

Steve and I were so very sorry to hear of Joe's passing. What an educated, interesting man and a great musician.

He played with me on many occasions but the most memorable was when we twice did a stage show as a Trio on the Isle of Mann when Joe's rendition of 'Georgia' brought the house down.

Bye bye Joe - will miss you, your music and artistic Christmas cards.

Howard (Shep) Shepherd and Steve Butler


26/07/16 -

I just wanted to say, it was a true privilege to have a shared a part of Joe's life. God Bless You, Joe. -

Steve Moyse


30/07/16 -

Joe was one of the world's good guys who was also a very mean reed player. By example he taught me much about being a good human being.

John Simpson.


03/08/16 -

Joe Silmon’s funeral was held at Manchester Crematorium on August 1st 2016. The old chapel was filled with mourners, including a good number of musicians (and a number of good musicians). The custodian of this website, and his wife Barbara, were also present. The service well reflected Joe’s faith, while being inclusive to those with different beliefs, or none. His caring, considerate nature, and accomplished musicianship were well portrayed, as was his sense of humour. Afterwards a number of us repaired to Chorlton Irish Club.

At the club reminiscences were exchanged, sandwiches, scones and alcoholic tinctures were consumed, with audio, and, later, visual examples of Joe’s work being presented. I would like to thank, and console, members of Joe’s family for organising proceedings, and pay tribute to Paul and Mike Medina for all their help to the family. Joe surely would have approved.

John Muskett


23/11/16 -

I am Dave Potts’ son and I am shocked to learn of the passing of Joe Silmon. He was a lovely guy and was lucky to have a good chat with him when he came to my dad’s funeral last year. He was so full of enthusiasm and a had a real passion for jazz music. If have just seen the various tributes to him on the Internet, which is very poignant since he wrote a wonderful obituary on my own dad which was greatly appreciated.

Andy Potts


 

 

Main Menu

Home Page